Carla Alves da Silva

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Articles, news and views on a number of subjects relating to
 life, living and people issues!

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Relational Needs

We all are born with a number of relational needs that form a crucial part of our psychological make-up and wellbeing.  When they are all present and available we are at our emotional best but when one or more are missing may lead us to feeling vulnerable or insecure.     


Acceptance – to feel accepted for whom we are as people, including our likes and dislikes, and our values and opinions.   

Affection – to feel cared for through physical and emotional demonstrations of love and kindness.  
 

Security – to feel physically and emotionally secure, supported and respected even when we dare to express our vulnerabilities.

Appreciation
– to feel appreciated for whom we are as people and for the things we do voluntarily without expectations.

 
Approval – to feel a sense of belonging and approval for whom we are as people within our family and social environment.  
 
Encouragement – to receive encouragement for the choices we make in life even if others do not approve of them. 
 

 Respect – to feel respected and valued as a person, regardless of our social status or our political, religious or beliefs.  

 Support – to feel mentally, physically or emotionally supported whenever needed even if at times we may find it difficult to ask for help.

Which relational needs do you feel you have? 
Which ones do you feel are missing?
 
What could you do today in order to ensure your needs are met?


 
Your Future in a Shopping Trolley

We live in a world where the only constant is change and yet we resit change because we fear it.  

Inspired by Anita Roddick's quote - "if you think you are too small to be effective, you've never been to bed with a mosquito", and the film 'Pay it Forward' with Helen Hunt and Kevin Spacey, Carla would like to invite you to join a life changing challenge.  

Commit today to change our world of tomorrow

 

  • change one item in your weekly shopping to local, organic and fair trade
  • commit to only buying that item in these categories
  • invite three friends to commit to do the same
  • ask your friends to invite three of their friends
  • pass it on 

  Sponsor with Plan - Help a child realise their potential
 

Sponsor a child with Plan International and you will make a lasting difference to the lives of the world’s poorest children. You’ll help equip them and their communities with the tools and knowledge to implement and achieve long-term, generational change.


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